First of all, everyone should know that I DO NOT OWN THIS TEXT. The only thing that i did was trying to translate (sorry if this have any grammatical error) - It’s another analysis made by a woman call Inna Puchkin Ievitich and i think that every HHr should read this. :D I’ll translate the best parts.
The constant trivial discussions between Ron and Hermione, for example, represent for some people a sign of a “loving tension” not resolved, however for others reveal the simple incompatibility of genius and the ideological conflict between the characters - further reinforcing the idea that Ron and Hermione don’t keep the affinities between them, necessary for a healthy love relationship and that make them more like brothers, taking the example of the relationship that Ron has with his sister Gina, wich Ron feel jelous, kind of childish jelousy, and who also he rubs (the same way as he does with Hermione), without represent an incestuous relationship between them (and in case of Hermione, doesn’t represent “sexual attraction”, “animal magnetism”, “romance” or “tension loving”).
If some defends the idea that Ron and Hermione are opposites and opposites complement each other, others see flaws in this theory, that oversimplifies the truth behind the complex interpersonal relationships. Carried by their senseless fights, Ron and Hermione are very similar in the stubbornness - Both are equal not only in the stubbornness but in fact that they don’t have mental tune, behavioral and emotional - unlike Harry and Hermione, who, throughout history, have deepened the relationship by establishing a link ‘spiritual’ increasingly strong (this can be proven from the close reading, not shallow and callous, of the books), as they mature and are improving the knowledge they have of each other.
Complementary opposites, Harry and Hermione are all to be, since they have characteristics that complement each other when they’re together: he, strength and she, intellect; he, the determined attitude and she the weighted attitude; he, the momentum and she, the prudence; he, the boundless courage and she, the reasoned courage; he, the safety and security that she needs, and she, the source of knowledge and understanding that he needs; he, sensitive to skin surface and she, the reason that balances the emotion. Not to mention the fact that Hermione has become more and more the reference for Harry and his main support, both moral and emotional.
In the books it is easy to diagnose situations in which Harry and Hermione seem to have a tune that is so necessary to the couples. In the five books is even easier to find situations of concern and affection of Harry with Hermione, and her with him, than Ron with Hermione. Most demonstrations of insensitivity and immaturity for Hermione are, indeed, made by Ron. A clear example of the love life incompatibility of Ron and Hermione is seen in the third book, when Harry receives the Firebolt back that had been confiscated by prof. Minerva for inspection after the conversation he had with Hermione. The first thing that Harry does when he recover his broom is suggest to Ron try to make peace with Hermione (because, for most hurt that Harry has been with her, he understood her attitude and the purity of her intentions ). When they found Hermione isolated and overlooking the books and scrolls, Harry and Ron have entirely different attitudes. While Ron admires the Firebolt and climbs into the bedroom taking the firebolt with him “as if made of glass,” Harry admires Hermione. He turns to her and start a friendly conversation. He ask to sit beside her and watches her closely - something that he couldn’t do while they were away from each other, more by her reluctance to stay away from him and Ron. In contemplating her near, Harry realizes that she is visibly exhausted, looking as tired as the prof. Lupin, in comparison. Worried about Hermione, Harry suggested her to suspend one or two disciplines. And where Ron was all this time? In the bedroom … “Dating” a broom.
For these and many other displays of “affection” of Ron and Hermione is that many support the idea that he don’t deserve her and they aren’t made for each other, and she should find someone, perhaps, this one is Harry Potter.
Lawd, someone hold me.